Weird logic ??!!#$%^

Caution and love
Hand in hand?

Friends advise to take thinsg easy
be held back
and to not trust blindly
not to be too attached

But isn't love all about
being the opposite all that they advise?
Isn't love all about
what I am?
Stupidly, insecuredly, madly
in love...

How can I walk yet stop?
Shut up and speak?
Smile with unsmiling eyes
Visualise without beleieving?
Love without being attached?